Aggravation by association

I guess I have no right to complain or to be upset when I know what to expect from others.  Ok here is the deal:

As I stated a few days ago about the same or similar subject in Suggestive questions, rejective decision.  I hired this person to help me here at home and I have found that they have marital problems, business problems, and provocative morals none of which I need in my life.  I will use them this month and I am sure I will have to either cut them way back or out completely.  I have decided to help by paying some in advance for this month and that will help them a little.  I am not a sugar daddy, no desire to be, nor do I have the funds for such activity.

So many suggestive questions have aggravated me by association and led me to rejective decisions.

What to do

What to do when a young kid ask you a question about sex?  Run for shelter, defer the kid to the parents, or color an answer to their level.

What to do when someone asks you for a loan?  A hard question to answer.  What are you comfortable with, a promise of repayment (never to come), can you afford the loss if repayment never occurs, is there a level of trust between you and the other party?  It is a personal decision and I would caution against it from experience with friends and family.

Other than the above two events I would say it is a consideration that you would most likely be uncomfortable with, at least I am: borrowing your car, borrowing tools, and so forth.

What to do when confronted?  Be careful!

Suggestive question, rejective decision

When people desire a friendship and during various conversations are entertained which in time will lead to suggestive questions.  A decision of one shall result with a rejective decision.  A friendship loan with partial payback and the offer of suggestive activities will not work and cannot be entertained.

A suggestive question, rejective decision.