Looks like the turkey is getting ready for dinner, Thanksgiving Dinner. Happy to please.
What to do
What to do when a young kid ask you a question about sex? Run for shelter, defer the kid to the parents, or color an answer to their level.
What to do when someone asks you for a loan? A hard question to answer. What are you comfortable with, a promise of repayment (never to come), can you afford the loss if repayment never occurs, is there a level of trust between you and the other party? It is a personal decision and I would caution against it from experience with friends and family.
Other than the above two events I would say it is a consideration that you would most likely be uncomfortable with, at least I am: borrowing your car, borrowing tools, and so forth.
What to do when confronted? Be careful!
Suggestive question, rejective decision
When people desire a friendship and during various conversations are entertained which in time will lead to suggestive questions. A decision of one shall result with a rejective decision. A friendship loan with partial payback and the offer of suggestive activities will not work and cannot be entertained.
A suggestive question, rejective decision.
Another nut case
As a second amendment advocate, a legal permitted gun owner, and right to carry member, I am so tired of the senseless shootings and loss of life that takes place just to bring attention to a nut with a gun doing harm. I know we have gangs with guns, bikers with guns, hunters with guns, and regular people with guns but it is not often either of these four groups is causing trouble. I know I was a biker and I carried, but it was for protection. I carry now for the same reason.
MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS GO OUT TO THE VICTIMS OF THE CALIFORNIA SHOOTING.
A palmary approach
As I see it if you have something to get accomplished, with or without someone else, you should consider the palmary direction of maybe many and with the proper planning and approach, you should accomplish it in a timed consideration period.